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Curly Hair Problems: (Rant) Do men really dislike our hair...?

thecurlyhairproblems:

I keep reading all of these articles in which “studies” have shown that men just prefer straight/wavy hair over curly. They give a variety of reasons - they can run their fingers through it, it looks healthier, it’s more neat, whatever. When they survey men, a lot of men say that they “don’t…

  1. xseedax reblogged this from thecurlyhairproblems
  2. fire-and-gasolineeeee answered: Not true at all! Every guy I’ve been with has loved my hair. If a guy doesn’t like your curly hair, I say he’s not worth being with!!
  3. prooflovelives answered: Every guy I’ve been with and even most guys that are friends LOVE my hair! No exaggeration (:
  4. you-always-make-me-smile answered: my boyfriend and brother like my hair better curly
  5. scheduledspontaneity answered: Whenever I straighten my hair I get noticed; if it’s curly guys don’t even glance at me -
  6. stephie-cakes answered: My husband hates it when I straighten my hair, and he loves it when it’s a giant ball of frizz. ^_^
  7. cr4z13st answered: I’m not a guy, but a guy friend of mine says he hates curly hair as much as he hates it short. :(
  8. greenskittlesanddaisies answered: The older the guy is, the more likely he is to like my hair! Teenagers never like my hair, but ‘real men’ always seem to love my hair!
  9. danielleeeeex3 answered: im a girl, my friends that are girls absolutely love my hair and wish they had it. but they also constantly say ‘i wanna see it straight!’
  10. visiovisusvidere answered: Me being male, I actually stop and stare at a women if she’s got beautiful curls and waves. Its better than straight and lifeless hair.
  11. septembr answered: My boyfriend says he LOVES my curls. He says he likes them because it’s much different from every other girl’s straight hair. [:
  12. ohheygoddard answered: When I have my hair straight guys pay a LOT more attention, I know part of it is that it looks more feminine and hair pulling is easier.
  13. whateverl0lawants answered: My bf hates when I straighten my hair or even put gel it in. He likes the crazy lion curls lol.
  14. ashmcfarland answered: My hubby LOVES my curly hair… whenever I straighten it he says it looks good but is always really happy when I finally wear it curly again
  15. beweird answered: I get compliments on straight and curly. I think it depends on the guy. haha I think they just like it when you wear your hair down.
  16. bigknoze answered: This white boy likes nat. hair. I find confidence really sexy and I know that girls catch a bunch o shit for being natural. Not caring is hot
  17. jazzysound answered: I have met this guy who tells me not to straighten my hari becuase then I wouldn’t be me. He also likes to play with it.
  18. katrinabelle7893 answered: Guys almost always say I look better with my hair straight and ask me to straighten it.
  19. dorky-dani said: I’ve actually gotten mad at my boyfriend for saying “You should straighten it” when I ask how my hair looks, but since I’ve gotten better at caring for it, he likes it more :)
  20. livingfragments reblogged this from thecurlyhairproblems
  21. all-i-do-now-is-duck-around said: *except
  22. all-i-do-now-is-duck-around answered: idk guys have never really commented either way, axcept my ex who really liked it
  23. o-saiyyan answered: Well… Boys always say I’m a sheep but love to touch my hair so… Let’s just say boys are weird :p
  24. lovelydayfora answered: I once had a guy tell me after I’d straightened my hair that he was glad I’d put a bit of effort into my appearance. Was not impressed.
  25. de-light-fully-mis-under-st00d answered: all of my boyfriends have told me that they prefer my hair straight, but i just brush it off and say idc cause its easier to wear it curly.
  26. pleonasticmindset answered: Noooo, I’m a guy, and I simply ADORE curly hair on women, lol
  27. milesandlaughter said: I always get compliments on curly hair from guys. Never if it’s straight. Could be I feel more comfortable with curls.
  28. violetsarebleu said: I was once going to get a straight perm and my boyfriend practically begged me not to…he loves my curls!
  29. shirleytempledude answered: awesome curly hair :)
  30. fullfrontalthoughts answered: my boyfriend says he like it.
  31. eternityboresme answered: my ex preferred straight hair…he always asked me to straighten it-he said it was more “put together” ..i dont agree
  32. jacquelinebreeann said: every guy i know adores my lion hair!
  33. baileyteselle answered: So, I’m not a guy, but the first time my boyfriend saw my hair straight he was like wow it looks so good! it’s all neat and looks combed. -_-
  34. twirkaddict answered: i think its true at my school all i see are the straight hair girls with boyfriends
  35. bgmorris4life answered: Not at all…I love natural curlys…I have crazy curls myself and it a turn on to see a girl with hair like me.
  36. thedesireyoulack answered: All of my guy friends love my big hair, haha.
  37. iheartfros answered: I think it’s true because every since I’ve stop straightening my hair my dad really hates my hair!